In the Nigerian system, the men do most of the heavy financial lifting in the family. But over there, the structure and system requires women to participate in the heavy financial lifting also. So along the line, these 9ja .women begin to get overwhelmed and they begin to loose interest in the man that took them there , because in the first place most of their reasons for settling down weren’t from a strong conviction of love for the man, but just some that will lighten their financial burden.
So abroad system puts.. …that financial burden back on them, then they find out that, they don’t even love this man or need him after all. These men are innocent, it’s just the women that mostly married for the wrong reason, no body treated them wrongly in Nigeria.
If for anything, the abroad is… helping to expose this Nigerian women and their ulterior motives.
Maybe if they start marrying for the right reason, then there will see that, geographical location has nothing to do here.
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